Melinda Sue Miss Adventures

PR pro, Sr. Analyst who specializes in measurement/media/data. Volunteer for @Jolkona. Eye for design, lover of books, comfort foods and gathering with great friends over a cocktail or two.

When was super depressed, I wasn’t working—I was always too depressed. Hemingway did his best work when he didn’t drink, then he drank himself to death and blew his head off with a shotgun. Someone asked John Cheever, “What’d you learn from Hemingway?” and he said “I learned not to blow my head off with a shotgun.” I remember going to the Michigan poetry festival, meeting Etheridge Knight there and Robert Creeley. Creeley was so drunk—he was reading and he only had one eye, of course, and had to hold his book like two inches from his face using his one good eye. But you look at somebody like George Saunders—I think he’s the best short story writer in English alive—that’s somebody who tries very hard to live a sane, alert life.

You’re present when you’re not drinking a fifth of Jack Daniel’s every day. It’s probably better for your writing career, you know? I think being tortured as a virtue is a kind of antiquated sense of what it is to be an artist.

In an interview with The FixMary Karr debunks the toxic mythology that it is necessary to be damaged in order to be creative. My own vehement defiance to that mythology is what led me to choose Ray Bradbury – the ultimate epitome of creating from joy rather than suffering – as the subject of my contribution to The New York Times’ The Lives They Lived.

Pair with Karr on why writers write.

(via explore-blog)

Great read on why writers write, Mary Karr has some super insightful things to say that I needed to be reminded of ..good stuff!

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thewomentakeover:

“The best way to encourage women not to judge other women is to encourage and create connections between them. When someone is human and vulnerable, it’s a whole lot harder to make blanket statements and judgments about her. On a larger scale, we need to stop portraying women as catty b*tches out to get each other. If girls grow up seeing complicated, deep relationships between women who are working together instead of against each other in real life and in pop culture, they’re less likely to expect those judgments from other women or to level them themselves.” - Emma Gray
Read the rest of the interview here.
Photo by Andres Bohorquez.

“In the words of Zooey Deschanel, if you “want to be a fucking feminist and wear a fucking Peter Pan collar,” you can.”

thewomentakeover:

“The best way to encourage women not to judge other women is to encourage and create connections between them. When someone is human and vulnerable, it’s a whole lot harder to make blanket statements and judgments about her. On a larger scale, we need to stop portraying women as catty b*tches out to get each other. If girls grow up seeing complicated, deep relationships between women who are working together instead of against each other in real life and in pop culture, they’re less likely to expect those judgments from other women or to level them themselves.” - Emma Gray

Read the rest of the interview here.

Photo by Andres Bohorquez.

“In the words of Zooey Deschanel, if you “want to be a fucking feminist and wear a fucking Peter Pan collar,” you can.”

(via hellogiggles)

etsy:

For that Arrested Development binge-watching party. Never Nude Embroidered Patch/Brooch by LeighLaLovesYou.

This is going on my trapper keeper. 

etsy:

For that Arrested Development binge-watching party. Never Nude Embroidered Patch/Brooch by LeighLaLovesYou.

This is going on my trapper keeper. 

hershyscorner:

Its called ONE POT WONDER, of course I’ll try it!
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Crowd pleaser for sure, yum. 

hershyscorner:

Its called ONE POT WONDER, of course I’ll try it!

Crowd pleaser for sure, yum. 

(Source: champagnetoasts, via edatrix)

Random Thoughts

  • Absolutely must stop with online retail therapy. Yes, its less toxic than a bottle of wine and/or a quart of ice cream.
  • Ran and have done core work three days in a row, while I hate doing it in the moment it seems less of chore each time 
  • I can’t get enough of the Grapefruit flavored San Pelligrino.
  • Looking forward to 4 day weekend, Friday can fuck off.
  • ‘Over it’ on some professional fronts, which is causing me to think less than professional thoughts, slippery slope before I act on them…
  • LOVED working downtown today miss having all the wonderful lunch options,treat your self moment by Dahlia’s Bakery  was so worth the extra calores.
  • Site edits for my favorite nonprofit was the best way to recharge my joy for writing.
  • Had the most amazing Chile Lemongrass Beef Noodle dish, here for less than $15 with tip! Which is the sister restaurant to Tamarind Tree (equally amazballs!)
  • Isn’t it the best to hear or read “sweet dreams” from others as the last thing you say before the end of the day?

thedaddycomplex:

Welcome to Tumblr, Lean In!
I’m happy to know there’s an organization dedicated to the art of resting against a wall… That is what you’re about, right?
(NOTE: That is not what they’re about.)

If the “Lean In” book club at work ever takes flight I really think we need to make sure there is some Michael Jackson required listening that is mandatory for a work related book club. 

thedaddycomplex:

Welcome to Tumblr, Lean In!

I’m happy to know there’s an organization dedicated to the art of resting against a wall… That is what you’re about, right?

(NOTE: That is not what they’re about.)

If the “Lean In” book club at work ever takes flight I really think we need to make sure there is some Michael Jackson required listening that is mandatory for a work related book club. 

Mini’s make my coffee break complete, heart @tomdouglas!

Mini’s make my coffee break complete, heart @tomdouglas!

Fashionable crime always pays off.

Fashionable crime always pays off.

I love this list & every time I see it it makes me smile and release I am right where I am supposed to be. 

I love this list & every time I see it it makes me smile and release I am right where I am supposed to be. 

(Source: reachtorecover, via hellogiggles)

buzzfeedfood:

DRUNKEN SPAGHETTI: 
Boil pasta in water+a bottle of red wine. Saute pancetta in butter. Add al dente pasta to pancetta in saute pan with some of the pasta cooking liquid. Add ricotta and walnuts. EAT. 
Full recipe here by Fabio Viviani / Photo by Matt Armendariz

buzzfeedfood:

DRUNKEN SPAGHETTI:

Boil pasta in water+a bottle of red wine. Saute pancetta in butter. Add al dente pasta to pancetta in saute pan with some of the pasta cooking liquid. Add ricotta and walnuts. EAT. 

Full recipe here by Fabio Viviani / Photo by Matt Armendariz